This entry was posted on 7-18-2010 via email.
Just wanted to express to you my deep sympathy for your loss. Marie was the love of your life, and this is a great loss - I'm just very sorry.
It will be an honor to do the funeral. I will do my best to honor her memory, and bring glory to God.
God bless you and your family during this season of grief.
Grace and Peace - Dave J
Dear Ron,
I am sorry for your loss, and I was just praying for you. But I am also celebrating with you that you were married 50 years to a great woman. What a blessing from the Lord.
In Christ,
Mandi Ellefson
I am sorry for your loss, and I was just praying for you. But I am also celebrating with you that you were married 50 years to a great woman. What a blessing from the Lord.
In Christ,
Mandi Ellefson
Brother Ron-My heart and prayers are with you and your family. .It is a blessing to know your wife's pain and struggles are over. Blessings Max
Dear Brant family,
It's 7:40 a.m. on July 16. I have just read Dave's post announcing Marie's home-going, and I pray again for you all.
Marie was a delightful and fun person with a mischevious twinkle in her eye and a heart filled with faith and love.
I am sad that I only had a couple of years to enjoy her friendship. I will miss my newly-found "big sister." And yet I rejoice that she is now without pain in the arms of Jesus.
May our heavenly Father comfort each of you.
Robyn
It's 7:40 a.m. on July 16. I have just read Dave's post announcing Marie's home-going, and I pray again for you all.
Marie was a delightful and fun person with a mischevious twinkle in her eye and a heart filled with faith and love.
I am sad that I only had a couple of years to enjoy her friendship. I will miss my newly-found "big sister." And yet I rejoice that she is now without pain in the arms of Jesus.
May our heavenly Father comfort each of you.
Robyn
Hello Marie & Ron,
We've been out of town for the past two weeks, so when we came to church today we were hoping to see you, but no one was there. We don't know what the latest news is. We hope you are well. Know that you are loved, and you are in our hearts.
Much love,
Peggy (& Duane) Miller
We've been out of town for the past two weeks, so when we came to church today we were hoping to see you, but no one was there. We don't know what the latest news is. We hope you are well. Know that you are loved, and you are in our hearts.
Much love,
Peggy (& Duane) Miller
Dear Ron and Marie,
I have been reading this blog for a couple of weeks now and find myself in tears from both sadness and joy. You two are such wonderful people and I thank God everyday for putting you in my life during our North Memorial volunteer days. I would often tell my friends and family about the 'cute couple' who I volunteer with......you always made me laugh! Please know I am thinking of you and your family and that you're all in my prayers.
With love and light,
Connie Breakey
I have been reading this blog for a couple of weeks now and find myself in tears from both sadness and joy. You two are such wonderful people and I thank God everyday for putting you in my life during our North Memorial volunteer days. I would often tell my friends and family about the 'cute couple' who I volunteer with......you always made me laugh! Please know I am thinking of you and your family and that you're all in my prayers.
With love and light,
Connie Breakey
I heard a song today that was being played on the piano and sung by a blind man entitle "I Can't Even Walk Without You Holding My Hand" What a powerful message these words are as we walk along in life. You can hear the song being played on a piano and read the words to this song at: http://my.homewithgod.com/heavenlymidis2/cantwalk.html
Hi Ron & Kathy, Have been thinking about you so much and praying, of course, that there will be a remission and more time to enjoy your family. I think it was Dave who mentioned your attitude. We too have been so amazed that you have such a good attitude and we know that comes from your strong faith and trust in the one who created you and has wooed/loved you into His kingdom. "Kingdom" says it all, doesn't it. Because it's there where we find everything we need for life on this planet. Everything we need to plow through the winters of life and everything we need to not just plow but plow with the right attitude. We take our hats off to you. At the same time we feel for you and for the changes that this physical enemy has brought to your lives. We'll pray continually for a miracle from the miracle worker. We love you, Craig and Bev
.......make that heart-broken!
Hello, Marie--I have been checking this blog regularly, and am hert-broken at the latest news. As we have gotten acquainted on Monday mornings, I have become very fond of you. It seems that we are alike in many ways, with similar interests as well. And now I see that we will share our final resting place! (Though my port-of-entry will be Grand Marais!) Will you be my big sister? Can I come and see you soon?
Love,
Robyn
Love,
Robyn
Becky, if you'd like to write posts for the blog, let me know and I'll set you up a username.
Just wanted to share a Bible verse and thought with y'all.....It's Zephaniah 3:17, from Proverbs 31 Ministries:
"The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.
Isn't that a wonderful verse? The Lord serenades us, because He loves us so much! Wow! What a cool picture.
Hee's a joke too: What did the grape say when someone stomped on it?
Nothing, he just let out a little whine (wine).
Have a great day! With love from Becky
"The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.
Isn't that a wonderful verse? The Lord serenades us, because He loves us so much! Wow! What a cool picture.
Hee's a joke too: What did the grape say when someone stomped on it?
Nothing, he just let out a little whine (wine).
Have a great day! With love from Becky
Hi everyone! I loved the picture of Mom and Cam! Keep'em comin'!
hey grandma. how u doing? I'm doing a project on cancer for my biology class, and i need to get the addresses of at least three support groups, so if u know of any good support groups, please let me know. i love you. hope you feel better.
luv u *8-) megan
luv u *8-) megan
Ron,
just got back from Siberia had you on my prayer list, but it must have been the wrong address sorry i do know about Marie have been thinking about her and been reading the blog also, So sorry but Prasie the Lord for her faith that is the important thing that she knows Jesus, have nor forgotten you or Marie
sorry i got your e-mail wrong
In Christ
Frank,
just got back from Siberia had you on my prayer list, but it must have been the wrong address sorry i do know about Marie have been thinking about her and been reading the blog also, So sorry but Prasie the Lord for her faith that is the important thing that she knows Jesus, have nor forgotten you or Marie
sorry i got your e-mail wrong
In Christ
Frank,
True faith flowers from and through doubt. If you never questioned your beliefs, - you are just a puppet dancing to somebody's strings. If God had wanted your mindless obedience, you would've been created without mind and without free will. But you have both so... you can come to God of your own accord. Just look at the lives of saints, - most of them had gone through a dark night of the soul, and that's why their faith was so strong. The path to true faith always goes through doubt. So ask those questions you've always been afraid to ask, and find the answers, and then your faith will become unshakable.
Tom B.
Tom B.
i hope ur feeling better. i luv u guys!
Hi Everyone... I wish I had started writing here earlier. In the fall and early winter, sometimes I would feel such a foreboding sense of gloom over this issue. It was almost overwhelming. I should have come here instead of dealing with it alone
Some things that help me are that I learned in a book by John Tesh that as you are going through a crisis, you naturally grow stronger. And if you thank God for it, you will learn new things from your suffering.
As for me, some days I am really, really depressed over mistakes I've made in the past, or just because my hormones are on overdrive. Anyway, on those days, I always have the best insights. Then I jot them down in my journal, and they still make sense to me when I'm feeling better.
Some things that help me are that I learned in a book by John Tesh that as you are going through a crisis, you naturally grow stronger. And if you thank God for it, you will learn new things from your suffering.
As for me, some days I am really, really depressed over mistakes I've made in the past, or just because my hormones are on overdrive. Anyway, on those days, I always have the best insights. Then I jot them down in my journal, and they still make sense to me when I'm feeling better.
Hi Marie,
Dave and I were just talking over Facebook and I am aware and sorry to hear of the illness you are battling. I wish I could wish it away, but since i can't I thought I'd try to raise your spirit instead.
Dave has told me that you are suffering a good deal of pain right now and yet are not afraid to pass. I say that says a lot about you and I'm happy to know you think that way. I am in the midst of writing a book about my spiritual path and if there is one thing I have learned the past 38 years, it is no one dies! Just our bodies. So feel good about that at least.
I have studied about people who have near death experiences, delved into all sorts of different subjects that were spiritual in nature, tried many churches and so forth. To me its simple, you are born from spirit, we live here as humans, die and go back to spirit and see what we learned. You are going thru a whopper of a lesson right now as is your family but try to remember, no doubt youve been thru a lot in your life and survived it all. Hasnt all been about learning and love?
I will get off my soapbox now, but talk to Dave about this. We talked in depth and I hope his perspective changed just a little. I will attempt the same with my book. Dave can tell you what has happened to me job wise since last year and I'll just say "Hey, I followed my instincts and I have no regrets because no matter what I can not be hurt..its just learning" No matter what I do or dont do wont prevent from passing one day, so why not just enjoy?
I will pray for you that somehow, someway, your illness just goes away and you are restored to great health and I also will ask that at the very least your pain is lessened. I hope this makes you feel a little better. Know that no matter what awaits you, you will be fine and the same goes for all of us!!
Steve
Dave and I were just talking over Facebook and I am aware and sorry to hear of the illness you are battling. I wish I could wish it away, but since i can't I thought I'd try to raise your spirit instead.
Dave has told me that you are suffering a good deal of pain right now and yet are not afraid to pass. I say that says a lot about you and I'm happy to know you think that way. I am in the midst of writing a book about my spiritual path and if there is one thing I have learned the past 38 years, it is no one dies! Just our bodies. So feel good about that at least.
I have studied about people who have near death experiences, delved into all sorts of different subjects that were spiritual in nature, tried many churches and so forth. To me its simple, you are born from spirit, we live here as humans, die and go back to spirit and see what we learned. You are going thru a whopper of a lesson right now as is your family but try to remember, no doubt youve been thru a lot in your life and survived it all. Hasnt all been about learning and love?
I will get off my soapbox now, but talk to Dave about this. We talked in depth and I hope his perspective changed just a little. I will attempt the same with my book. Dave can tell you what has happened to me job wise since last year and I'll just say "Hey, I followed my instincts and I have no regrets because no matter what I can not be hurt..its just learning" No matter what I do or dont do wont prevent from passing one day, so why not just enjoy?
I will pray for you that somehow, someway, your illness just goes away and you are restored to great health and I also will ask that at the very least your pain is lessened. I hope this makes you feel a little better. Know that no matter what awaits you, you will be fine and the same goes for all of us!!
Steve
A little Pink Floyd to warm your day:
You say the hill's too steep to climb
Climb it
You say you'd like to see me try
Climbing
You pick the place and I'll choose the time
And I'll climb that hill in my own way
Just wait a while for the right day
And as I rise above the tree lines and the clouds
I look down
Hearing the sound of the things you've said today
And every day is the right day
And as you rise above the fear lines on your brow
You look down
Hearing the sound of the faces
In the crowd
I love you Mom.
You say the hill's too steep to climb
Climb it
You say you'd like to see me try
Climbing
You pick the place and I'll choose the time
And I'll climb that hill in my own way
Just wait a while for the right day
And as I rise above the tree lines and the clouds
I look down
Hearing the sound of the things you've said today
And every day is the right day
And as you rise above the fear lines on your brow
You look down
Hearing the sound of the faces
In the crowd
I love you Mom.
This is to anyone who reads this blog. Please feel free to write a comment, any words of encouragement, etc. We love to read them. Thanks
Hi Marie,
I have been thinking of you so much in the past few weeks!! I knew you had family in town during the holiday season and I didn't want to bother you during their time here... I'd love to come for a little visit sometime when it is convenient for you. Let me know.
I know you have suffered much pain and I am so sorry that you are going through this. I continue to pray that God's comfort is felt in and about you and that His peace fills your soul. I pray you find little glimmers of joy here and there in the most unexpected places. Missing your beautiful smile~!
Annie-Claude
PS - Emilie says hi! She was saddened by the news of the cancer and what you are going through. She sends you a big hug.
I have been thinking of you so much in the past few weeks!! I knew you had family in town during the holiday season and I didn't want to bother you during their time here... I'd love to come for a little visit sometime when it is convenient for you. Let me know.
I know you have suffered much pain and I am so sorry that you are going through this. I continue to pray that God's comfort is felt in and about you and that His peace fills your soul. I pray you find little glimmers of joy here and there in the most unexpected places. Missing your beautiful smile~!
Annie-Claude
PS - Emilie says hi! She was saddened by the news of the cancer and what you are going through. She sends you a big hug.
Marie--I just found out about this site today. How wonderful of your boys to do this for you, and for all of us who love you.
I think of you often. We all miss you on Monday mornings.
Keep fighting--we want you back!
Love you,
Robyn
I think of you often. We all miss you on Monday mornings.
Keep fighting--we want you back!
Love you,
Robyn
Marie and Ron. When I think of good , kind people I know --you two are the first that pop into my mind.
You are in my prayers, but, if there is something else I can do, let me know.
Ron and Marie,
I just wanted you to now Tom and I are praying for you daily and we trust in our Lord God and we know he is still with you and he has your steps ordered. I know this feels like a step backwards but I do believe he has a plan for you. We love you and are glad your coming hoe and we are here for you in whatever you need. We are praying for a safe trip home and that you feel better for it.
We love you !!!!!!!
Michelle
I just wanted you to now Tom and I are praying for you daily and we trust in our Lord God and we know he is still with you and he has your steps ordered. I know this feels like a step backwards but I do believe he has a plan for you. We love you and are glad your coming hoe and we are here for you in whatever you need. We are praying for a safe trip home and that you feel better for it.
We love you !!!!!!!
Michelle
Ron and Marie,
First of all, Marie, I am deeply saddened to hear about your health issues. I do know that God is in full control of everything. As I sit and think back over the years, I remember the week you guys stayed in my home when you came to PA to work on the ministry project (I forget what it was called.) We had such a good time. I do remember it was over Halloween and my sister dropped her children with me and since they don't participate in giving out candy, I had some for them and they had so much fun. Grant, who was probably 3 or 4 at the time, remembers sitting with Ron as he read a book to him. Thanks for the memories.
You are both in my prayers,
Love,
Carol Martin
Pennsylvania
First of all, Marie, I am deeply saddened to hear about your health issues. I do know that God is in full control of everything. As I sit and think back over the years, I remember the week you guys stayed in my home when you came to PA to work on the ministry project (I forget what it was called.) We had such a good time. I do remember it was over Halloween and my sister dropped her children with me and since they don't participate in giving out candy, I had some for them and they had so much fun. Grant, who was probably 3 or 4 at the time, remembers sitting with Ron as he read a book to him. Thanks for the memories.
You are both in my prayers,
Love,
Carol Martin
Pennsylvania
Warren and I are keeping up with your news on the blog. We remember you frequently in prayer and know that nothing is impossible with our God. Our family is doing well and look forward to hearing that you are experiencing the healing of The Great Physician. God bless you and your family. It sounds like your family is a wonderful source of support for the 2 of you. Love, Chris and Warren Heller
Marie,
I turned on Tim's computer this morning and this page was up, so... I thought I'd send you some encouragement for the day. I know that this has been a difficult week for you and I'm praying that you'll feel well enough by tonight to go to Common Ground with me. I pray for healing and strength for you so that you can get through this and "beat" your cancer. I have been blessed to hear many stories recently of others who have beat their cancers and I'm praying that this will happen for you also. My grandma Anderson beat breast cancer at the age of 75 and was completely healed of it. This became so much more amazing to me when my mom shared with me yesterday that the doctors gave her a low dose of the treatment due to her age and the fact that life expectancy was about 80 at the time. She sure showed them and you can too (with God's help)!
You are such a blessing to me and to your entire family- you truly are the "glue" that holds everyone together. Love, Brenda
I turned on Tim's computer this morning and this page was up, so... I thought I'd send you some encouragement for the day. I know that this has been a difficult week for you and I'm praying that you'll feel well enough by tonight to go to Common Ground with me. I pray for healing and strength for you so that you can get through this and "beat" your cancer. I have been blessed to hear many stories recently of others who have beat their cancers and I'm praying that this will happen for you also. My grandma Anderson beat breast cancer at the age of 75 and was completely healed of it. This became so much more amazing to me when my mom shared with me yesterday that the doctors gave her a low dose of the treatment due to her age and the fact that life expectancy was about 80 at the time. She sure showed them and you can too (with God's help)!
You are such a blessing to me and to your entire family- you truly are the "glue" that holds everyone together. Love, Brenda
Mom went to have her blood checked today because of the Coumadin. She took a 1/2 tablet, has been very tired most of the day, had a few naps, ate very little supper, and just went to bed a little after 7 pm. Keep her in your prayers. Her body is tired, but she went to bed listening to God's Word being read by John Hagee. Love, dad
Good Morning Marie!!
I woke up after a restless night of sleep and I looked out at the snow and thought of you. god knows you hate Fall and he decided he would give you winter. I never know what to write but just know I
m praying for you and I love you and I'm here for you. I get to go hear my little baby's heartbeat today, what an awesome creator we have. Have rest and peace today and strength , that is my prayer for you today! Cam also say's hi and he loves his Grandma so very much! He has a sympathy low grade fever for you this morning. We love you. God Bless your day!
michelle
I woke up after a restless night of sleep and I looked out at the snow and thought of you. god knows you hate Fall and he decided he would give you winter. I never know what to write but just know I
m praying for you and I love you and I'm here for you. I get to go hear my little baby's heartbeat today, what an awesome creator we have. Have rest and peace today and strength , that is my prayer for you today! Cam also say's hi and he loves his Grandma so very much! He has a sympathy low grade fever for you this morning. We love you. God Bless your day!
michelle